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Before We Were Yours
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Rating 3.5
OK, so I'm going to be the party pooper on this one.......I liked this one, but didn't love it. There were things I really liked about it and other things that drug it down a bit for me (hence, a 3.5 rating). So I'll try to list a few here.
First, the story. I think just about everyone knows this story. I'm sure I'm the last to read and review. A historical fiction read that has headlines plucked from the real world. Two dual stories told in alternating times between Memphis, Tennessee 1939 and present day Aiken, South Carolina. The true story portion was the horrible things that happened for over 30 years in the Tennessee Children's Home Society orphanage. The woman running it had some connections - judges, politicians, police, those with money...who LET her get away with basically stealing children from their parents. Their parents were poor, or less educated, or just made her mad. She then 'sold' these children to unsuspecting potential parents...and probably some suspecting too. It's utterly horrible to learn of this part of our history. The two stories are told from the point of view of a family of children ripped from their parents and put through the system and a woman, a bit lost, trying to figure out what her family is hiding after an elderly woman mistakes her for someone else.
What I liked:
*The story from the point of view of Rill - OMG, so heartbreaking. I spent so much time reading up on real articles about this time and the horrible, evil witch who ran the orphanage.
*I love historical fiction and always love to read where a small piece of history is used and a bigger story is weaved around this topic
*The audio - the narrators were fabulous! Especially the narrator for Rill. (which helped the rating)
What I disliked:
*As indicated, I do love a story weaved around a part of history. But what I don't like is when an author just piles on more and more dread and horrible things to happen. It just becomes too much and after awhile, I think the story gets a bit ridiculous (yup, The Nightengale did the same thing)
*Avery's story line. Initially, I had a hard time getting into her story. Eventually I warmed to her a bit, but the love-story portion was not needed.
*Too long - so much un-needed commentary could have been removed. Most of this came in Avery's story line. For example, way too much detail on the cab, riding in the cab, etc. After sometime, I just wanted it over.
*The very ending seemed rushed. Even though I thought it was a long read (needed editing), it just seemed so fast so many things were wrapped up too quickly with a bow.
*Perhaps it's just me, but it bugged me a bit how none of the children even tried to speak up. I understand how horrible it was, but children usually speak their mind. Even when you don't want them to. At least once speak their mind before they realize the trouble they might get in. Then, as adults, they wanted to hide the fact they were sisters.
Overall, I'm glad I read this. I learned a lot about this part of history. But I can't help but wonder, since this was the big NG Historical Fiction book of the year 2017, did I go in with the highest expectations that could not be met? I tried to separate that, but who knows....I didn't think this was the best of 2017. But everyone voted for their own favorite reads.
OK, so I'm going to be the party pooper on this one.......I liked this one, but didn't love it. There were things I really liked about it and other things that drug it down a bit for me (hence, a 3.5 rating). So I'll try to list a few here.
First, the story. I think just about everyone knows this story. I'm sure I'm the last to read and review. A historical fiction read that has headlines plucked from the real world. Two dual stories told in alternating times between Memphis, Tennessee 1939 and present day Aiken, South Carolina. The true story portion was the horrible things that happened for over 30 years in the Tennessee Children's Home Society orphanage. The woman running it had some connections - judges, politicians, police, those with money...who LET her get away with basically stealing children from their parents. Their parents were poor, or less educated, or just made her mad. She then 'sold' these children to unsuspecting potential parents...and probably some suspecting too. It's utterly horrible to learn of this part of our history. The two stories are told from the point of view of a family of children ripped from their parents and put through the system and a woman, a bit lost, trying to figure out what her family is hiding after an elderly woman mistakes her for someone else.
What I liked:
*The story from the point of view of Rill - OMG, so heartbreaking. I spent so much time reading up on real articles about this time and the horrible, evil witch who ran the orphanage.
*I love historical fiction and always love to read where a small piece of history is used and a bigger story is weaved around this topic
*The audio - the narrators were fabulous! Especially the narrator for Rill. (which helped the rating)
What I disliked:
*As indicated, I do love a story weaved around a part of history. But what I don't like is when an author just piles on more and more dread and horrible things to happen. It just becomes too much and after awhile, I think the story gets a bit ridiculous (yup, The Nightengale did the same thing)
*Avery's story line. Initially, I had a hard time getting into her story. Eventually I warmed to her a bit, but the love-story portion was not needed.
*Too long - so much un-needed commentary could have been removed. Most of this came in Avery's story line. For example, way too much detail on the cab, riding in the cab, etc. After sometime, I just wanted it over.
*The very ending seemed rushed. Even though I thought it was a long read (needed editing), it just seemed so fast so many things were wrapped up too quickly with a bow.
*Perhaps it's just me, but it bugged me a bit how none of the children even tried to speak up. I understand how horrible it was, but children usually speak their mind. Even when you don't want them to. At least once speak their mind before they realize the trouble they might get in. Then, as adults, they wanted to hide the fact they were sisters.
Overall, I'm glad I read this. I learned a lot about this part of history. But I can't help but wonder, since this was the big NG Historical Fiction book of the year 2017, did I go in with the highest expectations that could not be met? I tried to separate that, but who knows....I didn't think this was the best of 2017. But everyone voted for their own favorite reads.
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I am confident you will love this, PorshaJo! Don't forget the tissues!
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Cheri wrote: "I am confident you will love this, PorshaJo! Don't forget the tissues!"
Thanks Cheri! I was immediately drawn into Rill's story. Took me a bit longer on Avery. But I find I'm spending longer on the exercise bike so I can hear more. Ha!
Thanks Cheri! I was immediately drawn into Rill's story. Took me a bit longer on Avery. But I find I'm spending longer on the exercise bike so I can hear more. Ha!
Kaceey wrote: "Great review PorshaJo! Sorry it fell a little short for you!"
Thanks Kaceey! I think from now, I just need to wait about a year before I read any GR top reads.
Thanks Kaceey! I think from now, I just need to wait about a year before I read any GR top reads.
Terrific review, PorshaJo - and I appreciated reading about both the parts you liked and disliked - and why! Thank you so much! :)
Jaline wrote: "Terrific review, PorshaJo - and I appreciated reading about both the parts you liked and disliked - and why! Thank you so much! :)"
Thanks Jaline! I always worry when I'm not as enamored by a book that so many people love. So wanted to be sure to explain why I didn't swoon on this one. Glad you liked reading the parts.
Thanks Jaline! I always worry when I'm not as enamored by a book that so many people love. So wanted to be sure to explain why I didn't swoon on this one. Glad you liked reading the parts.
I also had a few issues with the story but rated it slightly higher than you - think the audio narrator definitely had something to do with that :-)
I completely agree!! I read this one before the Goodreads votes and when I looked at it I couldn't believe it had won. And I could not stand The Nightingale. I felt like the party pooper on both counts. Thanks for your terrific review!
Sonja wrote: "I also had a few issues with the story but rated it slightly higher than you - think the audio narrator definitely had something to do with that :-)"
The audio narration is the only reason I didn't stop after awhile. They were great! I might have been stingy on my rating...but I thought about other recent books I rated higher, and this one just was not on the same level for me.
The audio narration is the only reason I didn't stop after awhile. They were great! I might have been stingy on my rating...but I thought about other recent books I rated higher, and this one just was not on the same level for me.
Fee wrote: "I really liked your review. It gives me a really good idea of the book now."
Thanks Fee! I do hope you like it. Many people absolutely love this one.
Thanks Fee! I do hope you like it. Many people absolutely love this one.
Jenifer wrote: "I completely agree!! I read this one before the Goodreads votes and when I looked at it I couldn't believe it had won. And I could not stand The Nightingale. I felt like the party pooper on both co..."
Glad I'm not the only one who felt this way Jennifer! I always worry when reading a book that is loved by sooo many. To me, I typically don't care for it as much. And agreed - I couldn't believe it won either. There were a few other books on the list that I read that I liked much better. Ha - The Nightengale....guess I better stay away from the historical fiction for awhile. :-)
Glad I'm not the only one who felt this way Jennifer! I always worry when reading a book that is loved by sooo many. To me, I typically don't care for it as much. And agreed - I couldn't believe it won either. There were a few other books on the list that I read that I liked much better. Ha - The Nightengale....guess I better stay away from the historical fiction for awhile. :-)
Angela M wrote: "Sorry it didn’t totally work for you, PorshaJo. I appreciated your balanced view."
Thanks Angela! Perhaps I had such high hopes and expectations....never to be met.
Thanks Angela! Perhaps I had such high hopes and expectations....never to be met.
Marialyce wrote: "Sorry you didn't enjoy this one more, PorshaJo."
Thanks Marialyce! I liked it, just didn't love it. Perhaps less Avery's story would have been better for me. But at least I learned about a piece of our history via this one.
Thanks Marialyce! I liked it, just didn't love it. Perhaps less Avery's story would have been better for me. But at least I learned about a piece of our history via this one.
Adina wrote: "Welcome to the party poopers club. I am already a veteran."
Ha! Thanks Adina! Sometimes I have rated a much beloved book 1 star and scratch my head at what perhaps I'm missing. Oh well....glad I've joined the club finally. :-)
Ha! Thanks Adina! Sometimes I have rated a much beloved book 1 star and scratch my head at what perhaps I'm missing. Oh well....glad I've joined the club finally. :-)
Great review. I agree with all your points. I rated it higher because I felt Rill's story outweighed Avery's story. For me, Avery just seemed to be a means to an end i.e. to connect the past to the present.
Lynn wrote: "Great review. I agree with all your points. I rated it higher because I felt Rill's story outweighed Avery's story. For me, Avery just seemed to be a means to an end i.e. to connect the past to the..."
Thanks Lynn! Glad you agree. I just don't even understand why to add in love story part of Avery either. I could have just read Rill's story and loved it.
Thanks Lynn! Glad you agree. I just don't even understand why to add in love story part of Avery either. I could have just read Rill's story and loved it.
Sarah wrote: "Great review, PorshaJo! Sorry you weren't a bigger fan. I'm not sure if I'll read this one or not."
Thanks Sarah! Well, many people loved this one. It was awarded best GR Historical Fiction book.....it just was a bit different for me. But there are sooooo many other books to read.
Thanks Sarah! Well, many people loved this one. It was awarded best GR Historical Fiction book.....it just was a bit different for me. But there are sooooo many other books to read.
Excellent review, PorshaJo! I was the party popper in the group for this one. Lol. It was 3.5 read for me too.
Brenda wrote: "Excellent review, PorshaJo! I was the party popper in the group for this one. Lol. It was 3.5 read for me too."
Ha! Cheers to us then Brenda! Thanks! Yeah, I see so man 5 stars on this one, and just didn't get it. Glad you felt the same! :-)
Ha! Cheers to us then Brenda! Thanks! Yeah, I see so man 5 stars on this one, and just didn't get it. Glad you felt the same! :-)
Wonderful review, PorshaJo! I liked this one too but didn’t love it. Brenda & I had similar thoughts on this one and we did too! 😊
PorshaJo wrote: "Thanks Jaline! I always worry when I'm not as enamored by a book that so many people love. So wanted to be sure to explain why I didn't swoon on this one. Glad you liked reading the parts."
Me, too, PorshaJo! I'm kind of in the same place myself right now. :)
Me, too, PorshaJo! I'm kind of in the same place myself right now. :)
Norma wrote: "Wonderful review, PorshaJo! I liked this one too but didn’t love it. Brenda & I had similar thoughts on this one and we did too! 😊"
Thanks Norma! Nice to know you felt the same. Sorry I missed the sister read on this one, but the discussions were interesting.
Thanks Norma! Nice to know you felt the same. Sorry I missed the sister read on this one, but the discussions were interesting.
Jaline wrote: "Me, too, PorshaJo! I'm kind of in the same place myself right now. :) ."
Oh what book are you reading Jaline?
Oh what book are you reading Jaline?
PorshaJo wrote: "Jaline wrote: "Me, too, PorshaJo! I'm kind of in the same place myself right now. :) ."
Oh what book are you reading Jaline?"
I just finished "The Heart's Invisible Furies" and posted my review. :)
Oh what book are you reading Jaline?"
I just finished "The Heart's Invisible Furies" and posted my review. :)
Melissa ♥ Dog Lover ♥ wrote: "Sorry you didn't like it that much. Great review though 💕😊"
Thanks Melissa! I think it just had such high expectations for me...too high to be met. :-(
Thanks Melissa! I think it just had such high expectations for me...too high to be met. :-(
Thoughtful review, PorshaJo! I’m going to try so hard o go into it without expectations! (I know you tried, too!)
PorshaJo wrote: "Melissa ♥ Dog Lover ♥ wrote: "Sorry you didn't like it that much. Great review though 💕😊"
Thanks Melissa! I think it just had such high expectations for me...too high to be met. :-("
You're welcome 💕😊. And it happens
Thanks Melissa! I think it just had such high expectations for me...too high to be met. :-("
You're welcome 💕😊. And it happens
Jennifer ~ TarHeelReader wrote: "Thoughtful review, PorshaJo! I’m going to try so hard o go into it without expectations! (I know you tried, too!)"
Thanks Jennifer! I do hope you love it! I'm just going to make sure to take long breaks between reading award winning books.
Thanks Jennifer! I do hope you love it! I'm just going to make sure to take long breaks between reading award winning books.
A most fabulous review. I have it on my TBR, I don't know when and if I'll get to it. Your objections sound legitimate, esp since it's something I'd be likely to be annoyed by, although, one never knows how they'll feel about a book.
Bianca wrote: "A most fabulous review. I have it on my TBR, I don't know when and if I'll get to it. Your objections sound legitimate, esp since it's something I'd be likely to be annoyed by, although, one never ..."
Thanks Bianca! Yes, you never know how you are going to feel about a read. There have been books that I didn't expect much from and I just adored them. Then, like in this case, the opposite. On to the next ones. But I will be interested in your thoughts when you do get a chance to read this one.
Thanks Bianca! Yes, you never know how you are going to feel about a read. There have been books that I didn't expect much from and I just adored them. Then, like in this case, the opposite. On to the next ones. But I will be interested in your thoughts when you do get a chance to read this one.