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Before We Were Yours by Lisa Wingate
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Rating 3.5

OK, so I'm going to be the party pooper on this one.......I liked this one, but didn't love it. There were things I really liked about it and other things that drug it down a bit for me (hence, a 3.5 rating). So I'll try to list a few here.

First, the story. I think just about everyone knows this story. I'm sure I'm the last to read and review. A historical fiction read that has headlines plucked from the real world. Two dual stories told in alternating times between Memphis, Tennessee 1939 and present day Aiken, South Carolina. The true story portion was the horrible things that happened for over 30 years in the Tennessee Children's Home Society orphanage. The woman running it had some connections - judges, politicians, police, those with money...who LET her get away with basically stealing children from their parents. Their parents were poor, or less educated, or just made her mad. She then 'sold' these children to unsuspecting potential parents...and probably some suspecting too. It's utterly horrible to learn of this part of our history. The two stories are told from the point of view of a family of children ripped from their parents and put through the system and a woman, a bit lost, trying to figure out what her family is hiding after an elderly woman mistakes her for someone else.

What I liked:
*The story from the point of view of Rill - OMG, so heartbreaking. I spent so much time reading up on real articles about this time and the horrible, evil witch who ran the orphanage.
*I love historical fiction and always love to read where a small piece of history is used and a bigger story is weaved around this topic
*The audio - the narrators were fabulous! Especially the narrator for Rill. (which helped the rating)

What I disliked:
*As indicated, I do love a story weaved around a part of history. But what I don't like is when an author just piles on more and more dread and horrible things to happen. It just becomes too much and after awhile, I think the story gets a bit ridiculous (yup, The Nightengale did the same thing)
*Avery's story line. Initially, I had a hard time getting into her story. Eventually I warmed to her a bit, but the love-story portion was not needed.
*Too long - so much un-needed commentary could have been removed. Most of this came in Avery's story line. For example, way too much detail on the cab, riding in the cab, etc. After sometime, I just wanted it over.
*The very ending seemed rushed. Even though I thought it was a long read (needed editing), it just seemed so fast so many things were wrapped up too quickly with a bow.
*Perhaps it's just me, but it bugged me a bit how none of the children even tried to speak up. I understand how horrible it was, but children usually speak their mind. Even when you don't want them to. At least once speak their mind before they realize the trouble they might get in. Then, as adults, they wanted to hide the fact they were sisters.

Overall, I'm glad I read this. I learned a lot about this part of history. But I can't help but wonder, since this was the big NG Historical Fiction book of the year 2017, did I go in with the highest expectations that could not be met? I tried to separate that, but who knows....I didn't think this was the best of 2017. But everyone voted for their own favorite reads.
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Reading Progress

May 31, 2017 – Shelved as: to-read
May 31, 2017 – Shelved
January 2, 2018 – Started Reading
January 2, 2018 –
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January 8, 2018 – Shelved as: audio
January 8, 2018 – Shelved as: challengereads
January 8, 2018 – Shelved as: challengereads-2018
January 8, 2018 – Finished Reading

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Cheri I am confident you will love this, PorshaJo! Don't forget the tissues!


PorshaJo Cheri wrote: "I am confident you will love this, PorshaJo! Don't forget the tissues!"

Thanks Cheri! I was immediately drawn into Rill's story. Took me a bit longer on Avery. But I find I'm spending longer on the exercise bike so I can hear more. Ha!


Dianne I hope you like this!


PorshaJo Dianne wrote: "I hope you like this!"

Thanks Dianne!


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Kaceey Great review PorshaJo! Sorry it fell a little short for you!


PorshaJo Kaceey wrote: "Great review PorshaJo! Sorry it fell a little short for you!"

Thanks Kaceey! I think from now, I just need to wait about a year before I read any GR top reads.


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Jaline Terrific review, PorshaJo - and I appreciated reading about both the parts you liked and disliked - and why! Thank you so much! :)


PorshaJo Jaline wrote: "Terrific review, PorshaJo - and I appreciated reading about both the parts you liked and disliked - and why! Thank you so much! :)"

Thanks Jaline! I always worry when I'm not as enamored by a book that so many people love. So wanted to be sure to explain why I didn't swoon on this one. Glad you liked reading the parts.


Sonja Arlow I also had a few issues with the story but rated it slightly higher than you - think the audio narrator definitely had something to do with that :-)


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Fee I really liked your review. It gives me a really good idea of the book now.


Julie Terrific, honest review, PorshaJo!!


Jenifer Jacobs I completely agree!! I read this one before the Goodreads votes and when I looked at it I couldn't believe it had won. And I could not stand The Nightingale. I felt like the party pooper on both counts. Thanks for your terrific review!


Angela M is taking a break. Sorry it didn’t totally work for you, PorshaJo. I appreciated your balanced view.


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Tammy Nice, even review, Porshajo!


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Holly  B (slower pace!) Great points and nice review!


PorshaJo Sonja wrote: "I also had a few issues with the story but rated it slightly higher than you - think the audio narrator definitely had something to do with that :-)"

The audio narration is the only reason I didn't stop after awhile. They were great! I might have been stingy on my rating...but I thought about other recent books I rated higher, and this one just was not on the same level for me.


PorshaJo Fee wrote: "I really liked your review. It gives me a really good idea of the book now."

Thanks Fee! I do hope you like it. Many people absolutely love this one.


PorshaJo Julie wrote: "Terrific, honest review, PorshaJo!!"

Thanks Julie!


PorshaJo Jenifer wrote: "I completely agree!! I read this one before the Goodreads votes and when I looked at it I couldn't believe it had won. And I could not stand The Nightingale. I felt like the party pooper on both co..."

Glad I'm not the only one who felt this way Jennifer! I always worry when reading a book that is loved by sooo many. To me, I typically don't care for it as much. And agreed - I couldn't believe it won either. There were a few other books on the list that I read that I liked much better. Ha - The Nightengale....guess I better stay away from the historical fiction for awhile. :-)


PorshaJo Angela M wrote: "Sorry it didn’t totally work for you, PorshaJo. I appreciated your balanced view."

Thanks Angela! Perhaps I had such high hopes and expectations....never to be met.


PorshaJo Tammy wrote: "Nice, even review, Porshajo!"

Thanks Tammy!


PorshaJo Holly wrote: "Great points and nice review!"

Thanks Holly!


Meredith (Trying to catch up!) Great review, PorshaJo!


Marialyce Sorry you didn't enjoy this one more, PorshaJo.


Adina (way behind on reviews, no notifications) Welcome to the party poopers club. I am already a veteran.


PorshaJo Meredith wrote: "Great review, PorshaJo!"

Thank you Meredith!


PorshaJo Marialyce wrote: "Sorry you didn't enjoy this one more, PorshaJo."

Thanks Marialyce! I liked it, just didn't love it. Perhaps less Avery's story would have been better for me. But at least I learned about a piece of our history via this one.


message 28: by PorshaJo (last edited Jan 10, 2018 06:07AM) (new) - rated it 3 stars

PorshaJo Adina wrote: "Welcome to the party poopers club. I am already a veteran."

Ha! Thanks Adina! Sometimes I have rated a much beloved book 1 star and scratch my head at what perhaps I'm missing. Oh well....glad I've joined the club finally. :-)


message 29: by Lynn (new) - rated it 4 stars

Lynn Great review. I agree with all your points. I rated it higher because I felt Rill's story outweighed Avery's story. For me, Avery just seemed to be a means to an end i.e. to connect the past to the present.


PorshaJo Lynn wrote: "Great review. I agree with all your points. I rated it higher because I felt Rill's story outweighed Avery's story. For me, Avery just seemed to be a means to an end i.e. to connect the past to the..."

Thanks Lynn! Glad you agree. I just don't even understand why to add in love story part of Avery either. I could have just read Rill's story and loved it.


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Sarah Joint Great review, PorshaJo! Sorry you weren't a bigger fan. I'm not sure if I'll read this one or not.


PorshaJo Sarah wrote: "Great review, PorshaJo! Sorry you weren't a bigger fan. I'm not sure if I'll read this one or not."

Thanks Sarah! Well, many people loved this one. It was awarded best GR Historical Fiction book.....it just was a bit different for me. But there are sooooo many other books to read.


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Mike Enjoyed your take on this one, PorshaJo.


PorshaJo Mike wrote: "Enjoyed your take on this one, PorshaJo."

Thanks Mike!


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Deanna Fantastic review, PorshaJo :)


PorshaJo Deanna wrote: "Fantastic review, PorshaJo :)"

Thanks Deanna!


Brenda ~The Book Witch at Witch Words Excellent review, PorshaJo! I was the party popper in the group for this one. Lol. It was 3.5 read for me too.


PorshaJo Brenda wrote: "Excellent review, PorshaJo! I was the party popper in the group for this one. Lol. It was 3.5 read for me too."

Ha! Cheers to us then Brenda! Thanks! Yeah, I see so man 5 stars on this one, and just didn't get it. Glad you felt the same! :-)


Norma Wonderful review, PorshaJo! I liked this one too but didn’t love it. Brenda & I had similar thoughts on this one and we did too! 😊


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Jaline PorshaJo wrote: "Thanks Jaline! I always worry when I'm not as enamored by a book that so many people love. So wanted to be sure to explain why I didn't swoon on this one. Glad you liked reading the parts."

Me, too, PorshaJo! I'm kind of in the same place myself right now. :)


PorshaJo Norma wrote: "Wonderful review, PorshaJo! I liked this one too but didn’t love it. Brenda & I had similar thoughts on this one and we did too! 😊"

Thanks Norma! Nice to know you felt the same. Sorry I missed the sister read on this one, but the discussions were interesting.


PorshaJo Jaline wrote: "Me, too, PorshaJo! I'm kind of in the same place myself right now. :) ."

Oh what book are you reading Jaline?


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Jaline PorshaJo wrote: "Jaline wrote: "Me, too, PorshaJo! I'm kind of in the same place myself right now. :) ."

Oh what book are you reading Jaline?"


I just finished "The Heart's Invisible Furies" and posted my review. :)


Melissa ♥ Dog/Wolf Lover ♥ Martin Sorry you didn't like it that much. Great review though 💕😊


PorshaJo Melissa ♥ Dog Lover ♥ wrote: "Sorry you didn't like it that much. Great review though 💕😊"

Thanks Melissa! I think it just had such high expectations for me...too high to be met. :-(


Jennifer ~ TarHeelReader Thoughtful review, PorshaJo! I’m going to try so hard o go into it without expectations! (I know you tried, too!)


Melissa ♥ Dog/Wolf Lover ♥ Martin PorshaJo wrote: "Melissa ♥ Dog Lover ♥ wrote: "Sorry you didn't like it that much. Great review though 💕😊"

Thanks Melissa! I think it just had such high expectations for me...too high to be met. :-("


You're welcome 💕😊. And it happens


PorshaJo Jennifer ~ TarHeelReader wrote: "Thoughtful review, PorshaJo! I’m going to try so hard o go into it without expectations! (I know you tried, too!)"

Thanks Jennifer! I do hope you love it! I'm just going to make sure to take long breaks between reading award winning books.


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Bianca A most fabulous review. I have it on my TBR, I don't know when and if I'll get to it. Your objections sound legitimate, esp since it's something I'd be likely to be annoyed by, although, one never knows how they'll feel about a book.


PorshaJo Bianca wrote: "A most fabulous review. I have it on my TBR, I don't know when and if I'll get to it. Your objections sound legitimate, esp since it's something I'd be likely to be annoyed by, although, one never ..."

Thanks Bianca! Yes, you never know how you are going to feel about a read. There have been books that I didn't expect much from and I just adored them. Then, like in this case, the opposite. On to the next ones. But I will be interested in your thoughts when you do get a chance to read this one.


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