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540 pages, Hardcover
First published January 1, 1998
Can such longing weigh you down even if you no longer love her as you did before? Having nothing better to do, I began trying to understand what that longing was. Never mind repenting. What I had to do was study myself and others like you study grammar and music, and stop indulging in my emotions. Such a beautiful word, 'emotions'! But I had no time for words now. I had to think about what that longing was.I may have a bevy of bits and pieces at the end of 670 pages of prose and 25 of end notes, but it's nearly impossible to stop and take one's bearings anytime between that and this work's beginning. You could stick the 'experimental' label on this if you like, but the constant shift from interiority in the first-person and third to ever present dialogue and further on to the feel of a memoir whose grandmother Princess roots lay in an illiterate girl's coming to terms with sexuality and all its fucked up potential doesn't force itself in through you and out the door. I had to backtrack more than once and could have increasingly used a family tree as illegitimates and legitimates and the flings with servants and the children thought impossible but here they are sprouted up through the years, but it was a pleasure to do so, and that is not something I can say about very many works. So, if you're looking for your fictional take on the 1900-196(?) history of Sicily, be prepared to make an actual effort. Double that for the people who are prone to throwing hissy fits over Women Doing Things in Literature/Life/etc etc.
[E]very ten years we must re-read the books that shaped us if we want to understand anything.
In Stendahl's day, a woman was old at thirty. At thirty I had just begun to understand things and to live.The best books break politics down into the most basic of questions. Les Misérables, God's Bits of Wood, this, other pieces that pose a simple dichotomy: either you believe all human beings are human beings, or you don't. Gay, bisexual, trans, poor, PTSD from having survived sexual assault, physically disabled, mentally disabled, illegitimate, a girl, a soldier, a rebel, a revolutionary, an old woman who has learned lessons of Fascism too well to shuffle herself off stage left at the beckoning of a strapping young boy's sociopolitically enforced come hither. It's all quite simple, however much people whine otherwise, all too uncomfortable with which characters are allowed to live and thrive and even grieve in a peace both encouraged and sanctioned, instead of taking the customary path of being killed off for the Tragedy of the Well-Off Non-Queer White Male. None of these characters are going to die for your guilt, least not until they've had their say.
[A] doctor's profession is only valid if accompanied by political action that aims to provide everyone with healthful, liveable homes and genuinely efficient hospitals. To do this it is necessary to act, act deep down at the root causes. There is no other way.
What do I have to do to make you see that many of the things you want are instilled in you from above in order to use you?
I'm a woman, Joyce, and for me being normal means loving men and women.Reviewers keep trying to shove this in the Leopard/Lampedusa comparison box. I personally am glad I barely remember the thing, other than what I'm forcibly reminded by whenever someone comes along and decides it's their prerogative to lose their shit over my review when there's so many five star accolades they could sigh and swoon over instead. What I recall is a glorification of the masculine that wasn't even sexy, various doormats with various openings that apparently were supposed to be women, and the ever burgeoning fear of What Shall We Do When People Can No Longer Be Rich? In comparison, this book has sexy times whose dire beginnings develop into a gloriously self-conscious lover completely in tune with her desires as well as the rights of both herself and her many lovers, never minding the gender in a way I can now get well behind. Instead of fear of people other than the obscenely wealthy getting the life they deserve, there's a deeply ingrained belief that waves of Communism and Democracy and Women's Rights and Sexual Rights provide parts of but never quite encompass as the decades progress. And, of course, actual woman standing in for characters. Bliss.
One doesn't take advantage of an embrace that comes from gratitude, or sleepiness or sorrow.
I learned to read books in a different way. As I came across a certain word, a certain adjective, I extracted them from their context and analysed them to see if they could be used in 'my' context. In that first attempt to identify the lie hidden in words that were evocative even to me, I realized how many of them there were, and accordingly how many false concepts I had fallen victim to. And my hatred grew, day by day: the hatred of discovering that I had been deceived.
'So you've made love to many women and you can't even tell me how they felt?'It was only during the last thirty pages or so that I realized what a magnificent piece of writing this is. I'm half the age that the character was at that particular point in the narrative, but the way in which she broke herself upon age and gender and the passing of time can happen at any point in one's life, regardless of that oh so popular phrase of 'midlife crisis'. The end trailed off in the hazy, geriatric, and bisexual lust of 1960's Sicily, so it would be foolish to treat The Neapolitan Novels as its successor, but I can't help but think how much more modern The Art of Joy, written 35 years before My Brilliant Friend surfaced and published only after the author was dead and gone and her husband strode into her stead two decades later. There's burying, and then there's being walled up while one is still alive, and the difference lies in whether, upon disinterment, we're still hashing out the work's same boring old authorship of the same boring old questions of pedagogy and social justice over the same old dead and broken bodies that were proclaimed a century ago to an audience whose onlookers in the richly encrusted and well amplified balconies cried, too soon.
To consider oneself indispensable to young, defenseless human beings, just because you feed them, is the most atrocious paternalism....I would form a children's union against the formidable duo of father and mother, who demand love in exchange for a crust of bred or a plaything — too high a price for any normal individual to pay.
'I was taught that there's no place in a man's soul for doubt.'
'They teach you that in order to imprison you carusi in a suit of armour made up of obligations and false certainties. Like they do with us women, Mattia: different obligations, different armour. Silken ties, but it's the same thing.'
'You must be right, because an unfamiliar melancholy came over me and has stayed with me ever since I encountered the word "doubt".'
'It's fear of this melancholy that leads man to affect certainties and impose dogmas. But man is still too young to know. He's only just learned to read and write. And those he thinks are gods are idols that only want human sacrifices.'