Broken Families Quotes

“A newspaper article that I read recently concluded that people are dying because of what they are eating. This article was talking about diets. Some inner voice inside me said even more people are dying because of what is eating them – the toxic relationships that they are keeping and the family problems that they are not resolving.”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life

“You are free to the choice that you want, but you are not free from the consequences of that choice. That choice you make today may break or make your family in future.”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life

“We have to train our mind to see the good in everything, the positive. If you fight with a family member, there is something to learn from it, but you may have to find what it is that you have to learn from that experience. You have to exercise your mind to do that. As the thought energy flows into our mind, we decide what we are going to think.”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life

“Living your dreams, changing your behaviours and overcoming negative habits is challenging. However, when you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life

“You acquire a higher level of consciousness that helps your find your true purpose and resolve your family problems by letting go of negative programming, raising your level of self-esteem, becoming more assertive, and creating more love, trust, and enjoyment in your life.”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life

“You cannot simply leave your success to chance. Find someone who allows you to see the hope inside yourself and make them your mentor. This person will empower you to see a possible future, and believe that it can be obtained.”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life

“You are on earth to express greatness in your form, not anyone else’s. You are born for a reason. You have to find out what that reason is. This is not easy because you have to dig deep into your mind and soul to know your true purpose. Sometimes that creates a misalignment with those you love”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life

“Do not be waylaid by a toxic family Whatsapp group. You fought hard to emerge as your own person in real life. Do not succumb to this new medium that replicates all the sad, toxic hierarchies of broken families. Walk out. Do it now.”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life

“The number one skill we can ever acquire is the ability to use our mind to create possibilities for our lives, and to resolve problems. This is very important because without the control of our mind, we follow other people’s minds and actions, and not ours. Then we fall and we fail.”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life

“The mind is rich with possibilities for fulfilment, but you decide to dwell on the limited horizons and paradigms that you are used to, the societal imprint. You do not tap into exactly what your mind and your soul wants, so you live the life that is imposed on you, not the life that you are meant to live. You live the life of pleasing others, life of seeking acceptance not fulfilment.”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life

“Families are organisations just like any organisation. Families need to have goals too. Every member of this organisation must be able to contribute to the family’s benefit, not compete to the family’s detriment. When the family has unified goals in addition to each member’s personal objectives, family relationships are smoother. Goals promote unity and cooperation and help each member to enjoy the fruits of the whole family’s efforts.”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life

“If you are not aware of something, you are not actively directing the process. If you are not visualising a great family relationship, you are not actively participating in making it reality.”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life

“You have to have self-respect and faith in yourself to cultivate the courage to commit to your endeavours even when no one, including family members, is by your side and neutralizing the negative influences in your life.”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life

“You create your life by the choices you make every single day. The difference between a great life and a mediocre one is based on how many choices you make every day that are deliberate.”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life

“Everyone has a paradigm that defines his or her reality. This paradigm is created, largely, by society. So it is limited because it does not include our mind and soul’s desires.”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life

“If you cannot forgive others, you break the bridge over which you must pass yourself. Make sure you are always building bridges and not walls because those walls may be blocking your progress.”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life

“The real measure of intelligence is action. Don’t wait because the time will never really be right. If you don’t start, you have already failed before you begin.”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life

“Any adventure that you choose to go on in life is going to be risky. Life itself is full of risks, but also many opportunities.”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life

“You cannot leave your destiny to chance. You have to draw the line and demand respect. Do not go through life thinking that you are powerless. You are not powerless. You are powerful!”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life

“When an idea comes into my mind from someone, I reason with it. I do not just swallow it hook, line and sinker. I question, ‘Will it help me get to a better place with a family member?’ If it doesn’t, I reject the idea.”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life

“It is important to remember that there is no success that can ever compensate for failure in the home. You fail at home; you fail everywhere and vice versa.”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life

“Wisdom is simply a lesson you learn and then apply it. It is that thing which makes you not only shine in the light, but glow in the dark. Guard your knowledge ferociously and use it when it is important.”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life

“The perception of a child may irritate you, but if you are patient, it can lead you to an understanding of yourself. The world of a child is full of magic things. You should be patient with them so that your senses can grow sharper.”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life

“Making the decision to act is the most difficult part; the rest is just tenacity and perseverance. Fears are mere paper tigers. You can do absolutely anything that you decide to do. You can act to change and control your life.”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life

“Family time is not a matter of convenience; it is a matter of priority. Spend time with those you love because one of these days you will say one of the following two statements: “I wish I had” or “I’m glad I did”.”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life

“I have found family to be the compass that guides me all the time.”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life

“Nothing can stop us from reaching our destiny. We have to understand our mind and our soul to realise that there is no problem, only possibilities.”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life

“Pride is a disease. It builds walls, not bridges and it destroys family ties and important relationships. Throughout my life, I have many examples of people building walls by their pride, their attitude, but very few examples of people building bridges.”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life

“The wise always build bridges in times of crisis, the foolish dig in and double down on building walls.”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life

“There are lot of people with loads of money, but have poverty of the mind and soul. Money will only give you options, but it will never bring happiness to a poor mind and poor soul.”
― Itayi Garande, Broken Families: How to get rid of toxic people and live a purposeful life