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304 pages, Hardcover
First published March 6, 2018
Maybe sometimes the strongest thing of all is knowing that one day you'll be all right again, and waiting and waiting until you can come into the sun.
Rating: 5 stars
Can you actually believe a quote like that came from a middle grade novel? If you're anything like me, when I started this book search for my third grade book club I assumed everything I'd read would be childish and irrelevant to me. Well now I feel like an idiot, because that is so wrong. Tae Keller gets it here. Without once losing that perfect child-like spark and innocence, Keller is able to tell an uplifting story of a young girl, Natalie, who is dealing with life and all life's breakable things as her mom is suffering from crippling depression.
The mature message of this book is impressive and so important. Keller touches on pretty basic themes of friendship and family, but it's made so much more complex with the addition of depression. I think we like to pretend that kids don't experience these complex feelings, or don't understand them enough for those feelings to be important. It's not Natalie that's depressed, but she's still deeply affected by her mother's depression and left out of the loop because she's young. Subsequently, she's confused and angry at her mom. The way Natalie is slowly able to accept depression as a real issue and not her mom's choice to "not care" is such an important thing. Because 12 year olds probably don't understand depression. But they should. And Natalie learns slowly here and in the most accessible way that her mother is strong for fighting and didn't choose to just stop caring.
Natalie dealing with her mom's depression is the main conflict of the novel, but my favorite subplot is probably Natalie's friendship with Twig. Their interactions had me smiling and laughing, like, actually. I sat outside and laughed out loud like a maniac and it brought tears to my eyes, too, to remember that sweet friendship kids have. It was such a pleasure. The theme of friendship here is lovely and hopeful. Twig and Natalie are able to talk about things that they used to ignore because it was uncomfortable. But it's so lovely how they have each other's backs and learn to open up to each other. Also, Natalie accepting being of Korean heritage is important. I like that Natalie's dad tries to hide his heritage, but Natalie is able to appreciate it. It's important that the diversity here conveys a message of acceptance (without being political about it, imagine that! Ah, the beauty of middle grade novels) and that it's not just diversity for the heck of it.
Another triumph of this book is Natalie's voice. At every moment Keller crafts the perfect thoughtful and fun tone for Natalie. The footnotes were funny, educational, and are a tiny detail that make the pages of this book rich with Natalie's voice. Keller creates her main character masterfully, and Natalie's development is perfectly plotted and resonant. Even in the emotionally rough times, it's not an adult trying to Understand the Kids, it reads like a young girl figuring some complex things out. Keller's ability to craft Natalie's voice and carry it consistently throughout the novel is how Keller makes her complex and difficult theme of depression accessible.
The Science of Breakable Things is every reason I fell in love with reading all those years ago on that yellow school bus. I want to buy a hundred copies and throw them at every person I see, because this book is important and uplifting and I'm a better person having read it. This book is probably above the third graders comprehension level, and despite my purpose of reading this being to find books for their reading level, I don't feel like I wasted any time at all. In fact, I feel lucky. I feel so lucky this book found me. It's so great to know that books like these exist in the middle grade world, and I hope it reaches every little bookworm out there. I want to say this book made me feel like a kid again, made me see the world with childlike hope, but it more accurately made me feel like myself, down to my core. I borrowed this from the library, but I'll be purchasing a copy for my own bookshelf. By far this has been the most special book I've read in years and I happily look forward to Keller's future books.
So here's my observations, Mr. Neely. Here's all my heart.
“Science is asking questions. And living is not being afraid of the answer.” – The Science of Breakable Things