Sometime, we spend so much time focusing on the one thing that went wrong, we lose sight of the 99 other times things went right. Ralph Waldo Emerson once said that in order to achieve contentment, one should "cultivate the habit of being grateful for every good thing that comes to you, and to give thanks continuously." Researchers have found that the act of counting one's blessings actually helps strengthen relationships, in all forms. In "The Other 99 T.Y.M.E.S" the undervalued concept of gratitude is the critical theme which defines the groundbreaking sophomore narrative by Carlos Wallace, author of the bestseller "Life Is Not Complicated, You Are." This may all be an enigmatic concept for some to grasp; the realization that although you have hit some rough patches the experiences should never negate moments that a kind word, a caring act, an instance of forgiveness or the rewarding feeling of knowing you worked hard to achieve a goal brought you satisfaction and made you happy. This book will teach you to appreciate the good in your life and encourage you to maintain a positive attitude despite the negativity that surrounds you. To appreciate circumstances that help you evolve not because you are impervious to pain and disappointment, but because you are accepting of joy. Most importantly, "The Other 99 T.Y.M.E.S" will help readers summon up the courage to approach life with an open mind, eyes wide open. You will no longer turn a blind eye to your struggles, hoping they will fade away if they are ignored. Ignorance is a progressive thinker's enemy; acceptance, awareness, accountability and action are the tools of the informed; of people who want change and do all they can to achieve it. The book, much like "Life Is Not Complicated, You Are" is an odyssey into recesses of your psyche that you may not have fully tapped into. At the end of the journey, prepare to view life through a completely different lens. Prepare to appreciate and value "
Carlos Wallace, a 2025 Pulitzer Prize nominee, is a multifaceted individual with a genuine passion for personal growth, empowerment, and community engagement. His remarkable achievements and involvement in various endeavors highlight his exceptional dedication to making a positive impact on society.
Carlos is an accomplished author, renowned for his bestselling books "Why Sell Lies When the Truth Is Free," "Life Is Not Complicated, You Are: Turning Your Biggest Disappointments Into Your Greatest Blessings," and "The Other 99 T.Y.M.E.S: Train Your Mind to Enjoy Serenity." These transformative works inspire readers to embrace a positive mindset and overcome life's challenges with resilience and grace. His literary success has earned him prestigious accolades, including multiple Telly Awards and Communicator Awards for "The Other 99 T.Y.M.E.S.: Count Your Blessings," a TV talk show inspired by his novel.
His commitment to education is evident through his involvement in the psychology curriculum at various colleges and universities.
Furthermore, Carlos served as the official spokesperson for the USA Cares Texas Region. Through the Authors United for Veterans program, a partnership between USA Cares and leading American authors, he advocates for veterans and military families, raising awareness and providing support on a national level.
Carlos' dedication to philanthropy and mentorship is evident through his role as the President of The Alice Wallace Foundation. He has been recognized and honored for his exceptional contributions and achievements. He has received the Shades of Blue Project: Youth Empowerment Champion Award and the Circle of Excellence Criminal Justice Award for his mentorship and philanthropic endeavors, as well as the Service Award from Top Ladies of Distinction, Inc. His remarkable accomplishments have also garnered the Certificate of Congressional Recognition and recognition by Radio One for Black Excellence during Juneteenth celebrations.
Carlos Wallace's extraordinary journey and tireless dedication to personal growth, education, mentorship, and philanthropy showcase his unwavering commitment to leaving a positive imprint on the world. His ability to inspire and empower others, coupled with his numerous achievements, makes him a true role model and a beacon of hope for individuals seeking personal and societal transformation.
The proud husband and father divide his time between homes in Houston and New York. He is married to award-winning journalist, television anchor, and children’s book writer, Liz Faublas-Wallace.
Carlos Wallace has hit the nail on the head with “The Other 99 T.Y.M.E.S.” It is excellent reading; inspirational and will make you want to take a step back and reassess your thinking. The bottom line is we spend so much time thinking about what went wrong, we don’t remember what went right. Wallace states when this happens on a consistent basis we lose sight of what really matters.
The goal of the book is to help readers appreciate the good in their life and learn to set aside frustration and anger to look at the bigger picture. He is not saying there will never be obstacles, frustration, or anger, he is saying don’t let it eat you up. I loved that he gave great examples from real life, sharing his own experiences and not lecturing as if we were naughty children.
His thirteen chapters cover topics such as Reality Check, Door Money (when money means more than how you treat others), Game Day (the team or people around you are more important than you), and Front Row. He does not tell us we must change our principles, but we should keep an open mind as to where others are coming from or where they might be going.
The chapter on relationships was very interesting. The author subscribes to the “80/20” rule, which means that the man or woman is getting at least 80% of their needs satisfied. This does not mean being a doormat and giving in, but that one tunes in to their partners needs and helps support those needs. The other 20% is when we look to others outside of our relationship to fulfill our needs. The old saying “The grass is always greener on the other side,” applies here. However, in reality it is a short fix, which often adds more problems.
I loved the honesty and compassion presented by Carlos Wallace in “The Other 99 T.Y.M.E.S.” It is very well written and will resonate with all readers. It is easy to read and understand, and provides many thought provoking ideas. The author has another book titled “Life is not Complicated, You Are,” which I am looking forward to reading.
The follow up to Life is Not Complicated, Mr Wallace helps you to put it all on the line. He speaks truths that you know, when you read it I felt like saying this is so true. The concepts that he explores are difficult and he tells you that but they are not impossible to achieve. If you want to follow his lead and look at the glass as half full rather half empty this will become a great way to live your life!