You asked and he has answered. The narcissist provides the direct and no-nonsense explanations and answers to the questions which matter most to you. The narcissist manages to keep a hook in you by leaving you with unanswered questions. These questions prevent you from gaining understanding, make you susceptible to the pull of the narcissist in the future and cause you untold anguish and anxiety. Not any more. A range of incisive questions covering the narcissistic spectrum of behaviours have been posed by those who have been on the receiving end of narcissistic behaviour. Real questions posed by those who know exactly what it is like to be held in the grasp of the narcissist. Real answers provided by the narcissist himself which will provide understanding, enlightenment and freedom.
This is an enlightening read for someone who has experienced an abusive relationship via an individual with NPD. I would say "...suffers with NPD". However someone with this type of disorder doesn't recognize they have a disorder in the first place as they are perfect in their own minds, therefore they don't suffer; their victims do. But I digress. For the most part, my questions were answered, providing insight in respect to my experience with being "hoovered" some 11 years back after 23 years of No Contact. I had no idea there was a name for this. Or that millions are abused via these positive energy sucking/negative energy spreading varmints. I find it rather ironic that a perpetrator is providing potential victims with the answers that could potentially aid them to freedom from this abuse. Note; "potentially" as it is profoundly difficult to succeed for most depending on the damage done. As I do find it ironic, I also recognize the author stands to benefit from all the books he sells. That fits the MO of a Narcissist, "to benefit oneself." None the less, I am grateful for the insight here. Something the writer would not understand as gratitude is not an attribute an N can feel or understand. Sad for them. Having said that, My rating is out of my gratitude for the insight provided. I've knocked 2 stars off for the grammatical errors and various explanations through out that were difficult to understand due to typos, mixed up or transposed words which were distracting at best. Are there no longer Editors? Oh that's right, to be a Narcissist is to be perfect.
This person knows what he is talking about. I saw myself on every page. I now know how this person I loved walked away when my mother lay during. Just got in his truck and never took my calls again. I could not believe anyone could be so mean. Six months later he walked back in as if not any thing had happened. Now I see how. Thank you h g Tudor.
Is it possible for my narcissist to be having an affair for years? I have been through all stages with him being married for 5 years, but have been together total of 10 years. Does the other woman get to remain in the golden period? And last, how do i know what level and which kind of narcissist he is? (From L.King)
I enjoyed this book A LOT! I feel like finally I can better understand my husband! In our 10 year marriage there has been a lot of behaviors and questions gone unanswered, that this book answered! Thank you so much H G Tudor for helping me! Can't wait to read the others!
I am married to a narcissist and have tried everything to understand his behaviors and even tried changing mine. This book answered all of my questions about WHY. This book sounded like it was written by my husband. Very brutally eye-opening. I would highly recommend this book to anyone in a relationship with a narcissist and also for those who have escaped but still have unanswered questions. I didn't give it five stars simply due to all the typos.
A great insight from a narcissist perspective,straight forwarded answers to many rational questions. Highly recommended book for survivors of narcissistic abuse.
Excellent, and question answering book! I finally HAVE a sense of closure
This is an eye opening book for me. While I have struggled with the why's and howcome's for the past 7 years, I saw this book on amazon, read the sneak peek inside it and decided I needed to read it. I'm forever grateful that I did. I FINA!KT have answers to so so many questions I've been left to suffer with BT my now incarcerated ex. Thank you for sharing, honestly just your kind thinks, functions, and is- p!ease read if you have flu d yourself in a situation such as I deaki g with a narcissist or cluster b personality disorder person. K Wright